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Why This Holiday Should Be All About Self-Care
The holiday season is usually about giving to family, friends, and loved ones. But in the middle of the chaos, the shopping lists, gatherings, and endless cooking, it’s easy to forget one important person: you. That’s why I wrote this post: to remind you that self-care isn’t selfish, especially during this busy time of year.
For me, self-care has always started with my space, and especially my bed. No matter how broke or how tough life gets, I refuse to go to bed in a rough, uncomfortable bed. Slipping under soft, clean sheets is non-negotiable for me. I want my bed to always look and feel like I’ve just checked into a luxury hotel because when I do, I drift off peacefully and wake up refreshed, ready to take on the day.
That’s why this holiday season, instead of rushing into endless gift-buying frenzies, I believe we should make it all about self-care. Because the truth is, the gift of rest is the best gift you can give, both to yourself and to others. And what better place to start than with bedding that makes every night feel like a retreat?
So, here’s my gift guide to creating a holiday of rest, one product at a time.
1. Organic Cotton Pillowcases
I remember the first time I swapped my old polyester pillowcases for organic cotton. Before, I used to wake up with my hair sticking out in all directions and little breakouts I couldn’t explain. But slipping my face onto organic cotton was like a gentle sigh of relief. My skin finally stopped rebelling, and my hair looked smoother in the mornings, and my sleep came almost instantly.
Now, I can’t imagine going back. Every time I lay my head down, it feels like I’m treating myself to a beauty routine without even trying.
This is a perfect gift for: The beauty lover who wants glowing skin and smooth hair.
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2. Organic Sheet Sets
There’s a specific kind of joy I feel every time I change my sheets. The crispness, the clean smell, the way sliding into bed feels like the world suddenly slows down. But when I tried my first organic cotton sheet set, that joy was multiplied by ten.
It wasn’t just comfort, it was a difference I could feel in my body. The sheets were softer, lighter, and breathable in a way my old ones weren’t. For the first time, I understood what people meant when they said, “sleeping in hotel sheets.” Only this time, it was in my own home, my own bed.
Perfect Gift For: Anyone who craves that luxury hotel experience every night.
3. Organic Comforters
One winter night, I curled up under a comforter that wasn’t just warm, it was perfectly warm. Not stifling, not heavy, just cozy enough to make me feel hugged by my bed. That was my first organic wool-filled comforter, and it changed how I viewed bedtime forever.
I used to dread waking up sweaty in the middle of the night or shivering because the blanket wasn’t enough. Now, my comforter regulates it all, and I wake up in the same position I fell asleep in.
Perfect Gift For: The person who loves to be cozy but hates waking up too hot or too cold.
4. Organic Mattress Toppers
There was a time when I had a mattress I absolutely hated. It was way too firm, and I couldn’t afford the kind of soft, cloud-like mattress I love. For months, I slept miserably—tossing, turning, and waking up with backaches. I loathe that bed even though I had to pay towards it every month. I would usually fall asleep on my couch because it was comfortable.
Then I discovered mattress toppers one beautiful day while searching online. That day, my life changed forever. Trust me, this is not an exaggeration because ever since the first night I slept on that mattress topper and felt like I was sleeping in a $2000.00 a night hotel room, I swore never to compromise this kind of affordable luxury again. I felt like a true queen, and that isn’t a feeling I will ever allow myself to lose. My mattress topper transformed my hard mattress into the cozy, supportive bed I had been dreaming of. Ever since, I’ve never used a mattress without a topper.
Life is too long to sleep on a hard mattress that leaves you sore in the morning. For me, a topper was the difference between dragging myself through the day and waking up refreshed, ready to live like the queen I am.
Perfect Gift For: Someone who deserves royal treatment every night.
5. Organic Wool Pillows
For years, I thought flat, lumpy pillows were normal. I’d wake up with a stiff neck and assume it was just part of adulthood. But the first time I tried an organic wool pillow, I realized how wrong I’d been.
The support was unreal—firm where I needed it, soft where it mattered. And the best part? I could adjust it to fit the way I sleep. Since then, I haven’t had one of those mornings where I roll my neck in frustration, trying to work out the stiffness. Instead, I wake up feeling like my head has been perfectly cradled all night.
Perfect Gift For: The one who’s always searching for “the perfect pillow.”
6. Organic Duvet Covers
I’ve always believed that the way your bed looks affects how you feel when you walk into your bedroom. Organic cotton duvets are soft, breathable, and make me want to spend more time in my bed (which, honestly, is never a bad thing). Duvet covers not only give you the perfect coziness for a good sleep, but they also transform your sleep space to look like something out of a magazine — crisp, elegant, and inviting.
Perfect Gift For: The design lover who believes bedtime should feel beautiful.
7. Printable Self-Care Journal
A self-care journal gives you a place to ground yourself, whether it’s writing down morning declarations, setting daily goals, or reflecting on what you accomplished. It’s more than just pages; it’s a routine that encourages gratitude, balance, and mindfulness. Having one nearby makes it easy to slow down, breathe, and focus on yourself in the midst of busy days.
Perfect Gift For: The woman who wants to stay organized while nurturing her mind, body, and soul.
Get my printable self-care journal here.
Why Organic Bedding Is the Ultimate Self-Care Gift
When people think of self-care, they often picture candles, spa days, or skincare routines. Yes, those are all great things for self-care, but none of those matters without good sleep. That’s why I believe organic bedding is the ultimate self-care gift. It’s practical, indulgent, and something you’ll use every single day.
Here’s why organic beddings and pillows are worth it:
- Eco-Friendly & Non-Toxic: There are no harsh chemicals, dyes, or synthetics.
- Sleep-Enhancing: They’re designed to regulate temperature and improve rest.
- Luxury Quality: They are soft, durable, and built to last.
- Giftable: These gifts are practical, yet indulgent, which is something everyone appreciates.
When you give organic bedding to someone as a gift, you’re not just gifting fabric; you’re gifting energy, comfort, and well-being.
Wrapping It Up: A Season of Rest
This holiday, skip the generic gifts that end up forgotten by January. Instead, focus on what everyone truly needs, which are rest, rejuvenation, and self-care.
Whether it’s a soft new set of organic sheets, a cozy comforter, or a life-changing mattress topper, these are the kinds of gifts that transform everyday routines into self-care days.
This year, let’s make the holidays about slowing down, recharging, and embracing wellness. Because the best gift you can give, whether to yourself or someone you love, is the gift of waking up truly rested.
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- Morning Routine – set the tone for a productive, calm day
- This Morning’s Declaration – affirm your worth with empowering statements
- Things I Am Grateful For Today – shift your mindset to positivity
- Today’s Goals – stay focused on what truly matters
- Finances – keep track of daily spending with ease
- Appointments – never miss what’s important
- Reflections – process your thoughts and experiences
- What I Did for Myself – celebrate small acts of self-care
- Accomplishments – recognize wins, big or small
- How I Felt Today – check in with your emotions and track patterns
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Till we meet in the next post.
With all my love,
Sianah.
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Novelist, Digital Creator, & Blogger
Hello, I’m Sianah Nalika DeShield, a lifestyle author, passionate DIYer, and proud mama of two amazing boys. While I’m best known for my bestselling novels like Who is Ma Kemah?, the Thou Shalt trilogy, and McSexy, I’m also the woman who’s been making her own hair and body products for over 15 years. My love for all things homemade started long before natural living became popular, and it’s what led me to build a wellness brand from the ground up using the same DIY recipes I now share with others. This blog reflects every side of me. I’m a storyteller, a creator, a truth-teller, and a woman deeply committed to helping others live well. If you love books, clean beauty, motherhood, personal growth, and honest conversations with heart and humor, then welcome. You’re exactly where you need to be. This is Empowered and Real-Life Lifestyle, and I’m so glad you’re here.