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Why Every Moan, Touch, And Breathless Kiss Matters In My Books: Unveiling The Power Of Female Pleasure

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Also, just so we’re clear, I’m not a doctor. Everything shared here is based on personal experience and Liberian ancestral wisdom. It’s meant for informational purposes only, not as medical advice. Your body is yours, so own it, love it, and always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any health concerns.

Why Every Moan, Touch, And Breathless Kiss Matters In My Books: Unveiling The Power Of Female Pleasure

Every moan, touch, and breathless kiss matters in my books because I write to celebrate female pleasure. Female pleasure is not just a physical act on the page; it is a declaration of freedom. Let’s be real. I do not write sex scenes to make your thighs quiver or your heart race. If that happens, you are absolutely welcome! I write them because they hold deep significance. They are spiritual, cultural, and emotional. It is liberation on the page, baby! One moan at a time.

Liberia: Where People Love Sex… But Do Not Talk About It

Let me take you home for a minute: to Liberia. It is a place of vibrant life, but also complex social norms. People here might have sex on Sunday morning, then make it to church before the second hymn. It is a land of unsaid things. We freely discuss politics, the comforting warmth of pepper soup, and President Boakai’s latest news. But female pleasure? That topic remains largely unspoken.

Sex is everywhere in Liberia. Everybody is doing it. Yet nobody is truly talking about it. This silence is particularly strong for women. We often learn from an unspoken rule that sex is primarily for men. The unspoken rule dictates we should be “there,” present and accommodating, but not necessarily feel. We are taught to serve pleasure but not to enjoy it ourselves. So, many of us grow up learning how to cook, clean, take care of ourselves, but not how to perform certain acts, how to truly own our bodies, our desires, or our capacity for female pleasure. This cultural silence creates a significant void, leaving many women feeling isolated and unfulfilled.

That is precisely why I write for liberation. I write for freedom. I write for all the women who have ever whispered, “Is this it?” after a half-hearted, disappointing, and long session where he is panting like he had done you the biggest favor by lasting forever. My goal is to affirm the importance of female pleasure through every word.

My First Book, My First Battle: Confronting the Taboo of Female Pleasure

Let’s talk about Thou Shalt Love, my debut novel. Writing it felt like the first war with myself, a strong internal battle. It brought me face-to-face with the very taboos I sought to challenge.

I am a good Christian girl. Yes, I have a free mouth; nevertheless, I love Jesus dearly, and he loves me more. I had big dreams and an even bigger imagination. I was deep into writing this book, and suddenly, boom, my characters demanded intimacy. They wanted to get naked and do some sweet loving things. They wanted to explore desire, connection, and yes, female pleasure, with an honesty that terrified me.

At first, I wondered, Lord, is that you or the devil trying to tempt me? Writing explicitly about sex, about orgasms, especially as a “church girl” from Liberia, felt scandalous. It directly challenged every unspoken rule I had absorbed. I deleted those sex scenes three times. Three whole times! Each deletion was a wrench, a concession to fear. I worried constantly about what people would say. A “church girl” writing about orgasms? The shame!

Why Every Moan, Touch, And Breathless Kiss Matters In My Books: Unveiling The Power Of Female Pleasure

But the story would not let me rest. That scene, that kiss, that moan; it had to be there. The narrative’s force was too strong to suppress. It felt like trying to write a love story without its heartbeat, without the very essence of human connection and passion. To omit the exploration of female pleasure felt like a betrayal of my characters and my truth. So, I left the sex in.

Then, I hid the book from my grandmother for a whole year. This woman raised me. She cheered for me, prayed over my dreams. She was the very bedrock of my life. I kept her in the dark about the book’s intimate content. The thought of her reading those scenes filled me with dread. When she finally read my book, something unexpected happened. It was a moment that reshaped my understanding of storytelling. It showed me its power to unlock hidden truths. She did not scold me. She did not faint or call a prayer meeting to cleanse the house of sin. No, my grandmother was not a prude. Instead, we talked.

We talked about sex. For the very first time in my life, at 27, I had an open conversation about intimacy with the woman who had nurtured me. She told me something that broke my heart: she had never been kissed before. I do not know what broke my heart more. Was it the fact that she lived a full, rich life, raising a family, contributing to her community, yet had never tasted a slow, deliberate, spine-tingling kiss, a moment of pure, unadulterated intimacy? Or was it the devastating fact that no one ever told her she deserved one? No one told her that female pleasure was her right, her birthright.

Then, she said something I will never forget: “Reading your book helped me understand sex is not just for men.”

My God! That was it!

This is why I write. This profound revelation from my grandmother validated every fear I had overcome. It justified every taboo I had challenged. It underscored the critical need for more open conversations about female pleasure.

Let us be clear: in my books, a moan is never just a sound. It is a declaration, a freedom cry from a woman reclaiming her body. But more than anything, it is a permission slip, an affirmation of self-worth. This is a woman saying, “I’m here. I feel this. I own this. This is my female pleasure”.

When I describe “her back arching or his breath catching in his throat,” I do not just write smut. I write power, embodiment, and connection. I write the visceral truth of human experience, which inherently includes female pleasure.

You see, our brains are wired for connection. Mirror neurons (yes, this is actual science, boo!) mean that when you read about a kiss, your brain feels the kiss. When you read about pleasure, your body remembers it, or learns it anew. It is a neurological pathway to empathy and understanding.

So, yes, books can give you goose bumps. That is not by accident. That is by deliberate design. That is the magic of honest storytelling, particularly when it explores the depths of female pleasure.

Why Women Need Romantic Fiction with Steam (Especially the Good Ones

Research confirms women often respond more to written erotica than to visual porn. Why? Because we crave the build-up. We yearn for context. We seek emotional layers, simmering tension, and genuine conversation that precedes true intimacy. We do not want to be thrown straight into the pool. We want to wade in, slow, with candles flickering, music playing softly, and the exquisite fantasy that he listens, that our desires are paramount. Just to be clear, I mean on average. 

All my novels, including Thou Shalt Love,  McSexy, and Who is Ma Kemah?,  are romantic women’s fiction with steam. While they are not strictly “erotic fiction” in genre, they feature intimacy and passion realistically. This type of fiction helps us explore our needs in a safe space. It allows us to release shame. We shed the cultural baggage telling us our desires are wrong or taboo. It helps us reimagine what pleasure can look like, especially for women who have only ever known sex as something they give, not something they feel. It is about empowering women to embrace their female pleasure.

And yes, psychologists back this up. Reading (and writing) this stuff can be deeply therapeutic. It is healing, freeing, and it is like finding a sacred space. 

For those interested in mental well-being tools that can help with self-exploration and personal growth, I highly recommend exploring resources that offer guided meditation or mindfulness exercises, which can complement the therapeutic benefits of engaging with honest narratives. 

Writing as Cultural Revolution: Championing Female Pleasure

I do not write just for pleasure; I write for women, everywhere, who have been told their thighs should be closed, their mouths should be quiet, and their bodies are for their husbands. My words are a rebellion against these restrictive narratives, a shout for female pleasure.

Why Every Moan, Touch, And Breathless Kiss Matters In My Books: Unveiling The Power Of Female Pleasure

When I write, I bring culture with me. I bring tradition. Yes, the beauty of our customs and the strength of our community. But I bring truth too. My stories are full of women who feel deeply, fight fiercely for their rights, moan loudly in ecstasy, and ultimately, win. Because let’s be honest, if it does not give you money, peace, and mind-blowing orgasms, it is not at all worth it.

Now, we get to do it even louder, even rawer, even realer. I am not here to tame my characters. I am here to liberate them. My job is to amplify their voices and celebrate their journey towards embracing female pleasure.

To make these narratives accessible and engaging for a wider audience, I use a blend of familiar narrative techniques and unique Liberian insights. My prose is clear and fluid, allowing the stories to shine. As the world has advanced, I have made it my mission to refine my work smarter. For aspiring writers or anyone refining their written content for clarity and impact, I recommend tools like QuillBot. It is an invaluable writing assistant. It helps paraphrase, summarize, and improve your sentences. This ensures your words resonate. Additionally, when brainstorming ideas or needing quick, creative content to fuel my storytelling, I find GetGenie AI and Scrivener, a powerful companions. It sparks new perspectives and streamlines the writing process for compelling stories. 

To every woman reading this:

If someone has ever told you that your pleasure does not matter, it does. It matters immensely. It is a fundamental part of your well-being.

If anyone has ever shamed you for wanting more from intimacy, know that you should want more. You deserve fulfillment and joy, the same as every man out there. If you have ever been afraid to feel, to ask, or to explore your desires, baby, don’t be. Embrace your capacity for female pleasure. Remember that God gave us the clitoris for one and one thing only—Female Pleasure! With those 8000 nerves, the clitoris is more sensitive than any part of the body. In God’s all-knowing, masterful design as creator of the universe, know that he knew exactly what he was doing when he designed our bodies this way. Make no mistake that God wants you to enjoy pleasure.

To the writers:

Write the sex scene. Do not delete it. Do not tone it down. Do not apologize for it. When we write honestly, when we refuse to shy away from depicting true intimacy and female pleasure, we help someone else heal. We give them permission to explore their truths.

Your pen can be a prayer. Your story can be a revolution. Your next chapter? It might just change someone’s life, empowering them to fully embrace their female pleasure.

 

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Till we meet in the next post. 

With all my love,

Sianah. 

Tools & Resources I Use and Recommend

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